My Hobby Completes Me - How Do I Know?

Finding my hobbies throughout my adult life has been often painful, and at other times accidental. At times, I have tried to force them in a more intentional way, and it has worked and it has backfired. What I have learned from all of this, I guess, is how to “tell” if it is actually “my” hobby. Does it match me? Does it belong to me? Does it fit me?

My medium sized life

But we have LOTS of measurements. Arms, bust, hips, waist, inseam, thighs, etc. NO two people are the exact same in all our measurements. To paraphrase the podcast, we try on a “number” and when it doesn’t fit we ask, “what is wrong with ME???” Even if we don’t realize it, we are making our selves the problem.